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They are not old, seedy or dangerous, in fact they are the picture of normalcy.
No alarm bells sound off when you see them, that is until they come to you and offensively tell you what they want to do to our body.
Obviously, they are too involved within the patriarchal make up of society to give up their status, but they are also not paying any attention to the risks involved with their lifestyle.
They become the bombs that may detonate at any point causing mass infections, broken homes and social unrest.
They don’t seem to have mastered the craft of discretion, unless they don’t need to.
Botswana’s socio-cultural make up lends itself to cruising culture which is strange because I hadn’t seen it until recently.
My interest was piqued when I encountered a group of high school friends, now in their late 20s, who openly sleep with other men even though they are proclaimed heterosexuals. But this sex is not without personal gratification.
This sex is based on removing oneself from sexual politics and disregarding stigma against homosexual acts.
This never happens to me in polished or up-market areas of Gaborone, yet it’s commonplace in the ‘hood’.I’d always thought Botswana, even Gaborone, was too volatile for this culture to pick up- homosexuality is still outlawed here.Sure, I’ve been privy to gossip about men who live a down low lifestyle, but I had never thought the cruiser or the gay ‘thug’ types were establishing themselves in this little country of mine.It’s not as though this lifestyle is being forced into the societal framework, it has been accommodated by the cultural norms of power, privilege, dominance and submissiveness.There must always be someone on the receiving end and they are the prey of NSA cruisers and alpha male thugs who sit in neighbourhood bars shooting the shit with their manly friends.
The many men that choose to go the down low route, creeping behind the backs of their wives and girlfriends haven’t embraced the full capacity of their privilege like this brand of man.