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If I have sex with someone to whom I have absolutely no emotional connection, I’m kind of just phoning it in. I’d honestly just rather watch Netflix by myself than fake an orgasm with some random guy from Tinder.
In other words, I used to dismiss this as “pesky human nature,” until I realized it was because I am also the one who is emotionally unavailable.It is not your failure if you don’t change this person.If someone isn’t ready to let you in, it’s not happening. I have pushed someone away who I truly had strong feelings for; I have also had the same done to me. This is not always the case, but in my experience, when you have sex with someone too quickly, all logic and judgment goes out the window.All of a sudden, both of you are like, whoa, this is clearly not a sustainable speed.Rather than pulling over and having an honest discussion, the guy tosses you out of the car and speeds off. YOU DROVE ME HERE, ASSH*LE.”Then you feel sh*tty about yourself and are confronted with the dilemma of what to do when (not if, but when) he slowly turns around to see if you’re still waiting there.
We think it makes us weak or that feelings lead to a loss of our freedom or independence.