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I said I couldn’t have orgasms with my husband anymore, and she said, ‘Oh, darling, just lie back and relax!
’ This from a mother who had collaborated with my dad on a groundbreaking marriage manual in the early 1960s.” J. is an artist, writer, cultural critic and mother of a 3-year-old boy.
She always made it very clear that intercourse was something that one must never do until after marriage.
“She told me a story of a girl who had been in her crowd in high school. I’m sure it was to drive home what happens to girls who have sex when they’re not married.” J., 60, is a businesswoman, feminist, writer and mother of two grown children, a daughter and a son: “I went to a progressive elementary school and we had a very good class in human biology.
Oral sex seemed to have come in the moment, so to speak.This girl had gone to New York and had affairs with men she wasn’t married to. But we didn’t discuss sex as pleasure, only as reproduction.“I came from a supposedly liberal, intellectual New York family.She smiled and said, “I call it ‘The last time I saw Elvis.'” We tried to come up with others, such as tying knots, twirling, ring around the rosy, but none sounded right. So I did what every modern mother does — I invited a focus group of mothers I know over for a virtual cup of coffee.Someone suggested “playing with yourself,” but I didn’t like that because it made me think of dressing up a Barbie doll. I e-mailed each of them a short questionnaire about how they learned about sex, and from whom, and a variety of other topics like masturbation, oral sex, homosexuality and orgasm.
The mothers mentioned in this article are practicing artists, as well as active feminists with original minds, ranging in age from early 30s to early 60s.